Feb12 Black and White Valentine’s Day 2010

An absolutely AMAZING group of ladies put together this Valentine’s Day photo shoot and let me tell you, words don’t do this justice. These gals have presented a gorgeous spread for us, but have also sparked an incredibly creative idea about celebrating and finding love. I’m going to let Nanci from So Happi Together tell you all about it, but first, let me introduce the contributors:

Event Design and Coordination – So Happi Together; Photography – Connie M Chung; Floral Design – Floral Elements; Stationery Design and Calligraphy – Olive Hue Paper Goods; Chair Rentals – Signature Party Rentals; Linens – BBJ Linens; Cakes – Some Crust Bakery

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Our Valentine’s Day photo shoot is not your typical celebration of couples, chocolates and hearts. Two ideas inspired this shoot and a story about a sophisticated Valentine’s Day party thrown by an engaged couple who love their friends nearly as much as they love each other – and decide to celebrate that love on this day.

The Ideas:

1. In Korea, 2/14 is Valentine’s Day and women are supposed to give a present to their significant other. 3/14 is White Day and men are supposed to give a present to their significant other. 4/14 is Black Day and single people go out to eat “ja jang myun” (noodles with black bean paste) to commiserate the fact that they do not have a significant other and therefore, did not receive gifts for the previous two months.

2. Many brides I meet talk about the guilt they feel towards their single friends (especially when those friends are in their bridal party) when they talk ceaselessly and excitedly about their wedding plans. Also, I find that not everyone enjoying the eye candy and inspiration provided by the wedding blogging world are engaged or even dating! So, I wanted to create something just for those single individuals who love a good love story and a beautiful party.

The result:

A fabulous black and white themed party (with the perfect touch of blush pink) for your single friends who are ready to mingle. The party can be about finding new love or meeting new friends; either way, everyone is sure to have a good time!

The details:

Pink and red streamers and hearts are so not your style, so why should they dominate your day of love? Instead, the black-white-blush pink color palette hints at the Korean traditions of Black Day, White Day and Valentine’s Day while maintaining a chic aesthetic that is neither too feminine nor too masculine.

Your place card doubles as a calling card at the end of the night. The back of your place card has a list of names of people at the party. You can check the name of a person with whom you particularly “clicked” (male or female), fill in your contact information and pass it along with no awkward reservations or moments, like, “Um… do you twitter?”

One small cake per two people encourages sharing and provides yet another excuse to mix and mingle with those sitting next to you.

The meal itself is none other than the fun-to-eat, not-so-neat ja-jang-myun and is a nod to the traditional Black Day for singles.

Wedding Blog Black and White Valentines Day

To all the engaged readers, your friends will be coming to celebrate your love on your wedding day. Why not celebrate them on this day of love? That is what I call a generous bride and groom!

GREY LIKES COMMENTS!

  • holli on February 12, 2010

    beautiful! what kind of flowers are those black and white ones? love them

  • Nicole Underwood on February 12, 2010

    the little cake and the black & white flowers are awesome!!!

  • Nicole-Lynn on February 12, 2010

    Everything is adorable! So cute!

  • nancy {so happi together} on February 12, 2010

    Summer! Thank you SO much for the feature! You just rocked my world! ;) The black and white flowers are anemones and I love them too! They were the one must-have for our shoot.

  • Kristi Wright on February 12, 2010

    Those flowers are so pretty.

  • Sandy on February 12, 2010

    black, white, light pink = genius!!! i’m also really loving the silhouettes! this is truly a GORGEOUS shoot and wonderful idea!

  • lydia on February 12, 2010

    anemones! one of my favorite flowers. :)

    we have some majorly talented friends out there. awesome job, ladies!

    thanks for sharing, summer!

  • esther kim on February 12, 2010

    Awww~~~ This photoshoot is sooo adorable & cute! Great job ladies! It can also be a perfect inspiration for bridal showers too.

  • bargain bex on February 12, 2010

    this just may be the cutest thing I have ever seen (and read!)

    makes me proud to be a one and not part of a two!

    singles, UNITE!

  • thetreasuredpetal on February 12, 2010

    haha! the korean in me LOVES this shoot! :) so beautifully done, with so much heart!

  • jane on February 12, 2010

    thank you so much summer for the feature!! and thanks for the kind words everyone!

  • Lauren on February 12, 2010

    Love, love, love this! I am a single gal but love looking through wedding blogs (my dream is to own a planning business) and gathering inspiration. Thanks for sharing!

  • connieMchung on February 12, 2010

    hi summer!!! thank you soooo much for the feature! you are truly awesome! xoxo! perfect way to start the weekend. :)

  • ellen on February 12, 2010

    how cute!!!!! great job, everyone! esther unnie, you’re a great model for this theme! loved every bit!
    nancy unnie, glad you found the jja jang myun! :) hehe

  • flights of fancy on February 12, 2010

    super cute!!

  • kenneth hong on February 12, 2010

    omg. . . who is that little minx? she’s hawt! great pictures!! i love the color combo and the pictures are awesome

  • Amy H on February 12, 2010

    Wow. I love the colors..super cute! And amazing photos!

  • This Lovely City on February 13, 2010

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE everything about this! What a talented group of ladies! Beautiful xo

  • Wrinkle in Time Photography on February 13, 2010

    What an incredibly sweet gesture… it’s so lovely to see people incorporating the real meaning of traditions into their own contemporary wedding rituals and making it so aesthetically pleasing! So beautiful and touching!
    Tatjana

  • Natalie on February 13, 2010

    the flowers are great in this shoot- love the colors, such a soft palette. Nice work ladies!

  • Meg Sylvia on February 14, 2010

    Omg, so cute! I absolutely love everything here. The floral arrangements are beautiful!! Just my style.

  • Alice Hu on February 16, 2010

    Amazing images from an amazing and talented group of ladies!

  • crystal on February 21, 2010

    i love this! so romantic :)

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  • kristin on July 19, 2011

    who did the silhouette chair signs for you? So cute!!!

    • Grey on July 19, 2011

      The signange was by the paper designer! :)

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