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Jennifer and Tony were married in the bride’s Missouri home-town, but they fell in love and began their life together by the sea. So, Claire, of  Imageclairity knew they needed an anniversary shoot on the beach where their love story started.  We’re digging the laid back-vibe and loving how Jennifer basically found the gown-metaphore (if there is such a thing) of the ocean. And—super-sweet side note—just a few weeks later Jennifer found out they were pregnant with their first son, so this shoot is the first ‘family’ pictures they have of all three of them. Enjoy!


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Photo/ Video: Imageclairity // Floral design: Little Fox Flower Shop // Makeup: Lacey Haegen Makeup Artist // Gown: Claire La Faye // Bridal Gown: Eve of Milady


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We’re always excited to welcome photographers to the Grey Collective and what better way than with an amazing giveaway?! Today the new—and uber-talented—Grey Collective member, Sophie Kawalek Photography, celebrates joining our troops by doing just that—offering you a chance at a dream wedding photography package. Sophie, who has a background in fashion photography, is a self-proclaimed chaser of light and, if you ask us, she’s definitely capturing it in her airy and romantic fine art style. We’re smitten by the timeless quality of her editorial style and of course we love that she shoots in both film and digital to capture all the emotion and details an event. Need we say more—other than we’re thrilled to be presenting you with the chance to win a Sophie Kawalek Photography page for your big day! Check out more of her her gorgeous work here and see below for how you can win free wedding photography!

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Full-day wedding coverage to one amazing couple anywhere in the continental US. Here’s what’s included:

– 8 hours of continuous wedding coverage shot in film and digital mediums
– Hi-resolution images on USB
– A 1 hr engagement session or day-after session

To enter:
– Follow Sophie at @SophieKawalek on instagram
– Email Sophie.Kawalek@verizon.net with the subject Grey Likes Weddings x Sophie Kawalek. Tell Sophie about yourselves—wedding plans, how you met, where you’re getting married and any unique details about your event. Be sure to include a photo of yourselves to share if you win!
– Open to anyone getting married in 2016 or 2017
Winner will be announced on Instagram + Grey Likes Weddings one month after the contest is announced

Terms and Conditions
Sophie Kawalek Photography is based out of northern New Jersey and serves the NJ and New York City area. All travel fees and accommodations for weddings outside of NJ/NY will be paid in full by the winner. Weddings must take place in 2016 or 2017 to enter the contest.

Since it’s way-crazy-super-freezing-cold over much of the country, we figure it’s the perfect time to share this striking winter engagement session from Taralynn Lawton. Valerie and Vince are adorable (not to mention their sweet pup!) and together they perfectly pulled off a relaxed-chic winter wardrobe for the shoot. We love the whole thing and, for a second, are embracing the cold. Enjoy!

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From the Bride: About a year after Vince and I met, we were skiing in Homewood at Lake Tahoe, which has some of the most incredible views in the area. I was struggling with the whole skiing thing, basically just cartwheeling down the mountain, which isn’t nearly as athletic-looking as it sounds (trust me). Exhausted and exasperated with snow in my eyelashes, I sat on the verge of tears overlooking the lake when he came and sat next to me, commenting on my “interesting technique” for getting down the mountain, making both of us laugh. We knew then that we’d be together for a long time.




Six years, three apartments, and one puppy later, he was taking me to the Chateau Char Marron peony gardens in the hills of San Jose during peak blooming season, knowing peonies are my favorite flower. We were making our way through fields of blooms the size of softballs when I saw movement out of the corner of my eye. It was our puppy running toward us through the gardens. I was both excited to see him and confused as to why he was there, when Vince untied a satchel from his collar and got down on one knee. The details from that point on are pretty fuzzy (my memories are through eyes filled with happy tears), but I must have said yes because he slipped the most beautiful vintage engagement ring on my finger and pointed to my parents making their way out of the bushes, joined by his mom who had flown in from Colorado. Buckets of tears ensued. It was a perfect day.











From the Photographer: I knew that Tahoe was a special place for Valerie and Vince, having bonded on skiing trips early on in their relationship, so I wanted to take them back there to spend an afternoon exploring the natural wonders of the area. And it seemed only fitting that we include their adorable pup named Ribs, who played a vital role in bearing the ring for Vince’s proposal! We caught an insanely gorgeous time of year, just days after the first snowfall, which made for an exciting mix of crisp late-Autumn and a magical winter wonderland. We strolled through different trails in the South Lake Tahoe region, stumbling on an array of beauty from fields of fresh snow to gorgeous Aspen groves, and finding a few patches of golden leaves hanging on from Fall. Valerie and Vince’s easy and adventurous spirit made them a joy to shoot, and they were such troopers braving the chilly air and stomping through the snow for me. I can’t wait to be back in the Tahoe area next year for their wedding!






Calm, pure, romantic. These were the three words textile designer, Kristen, gave photographer Heather Payne to describe the mood she and her groom, Jeremy Elrod of King of Pops, were after with their engagement shoot. Heather obviously nailed it. We LOVE the relaxed and dreamy vibe of this session—it’s so simple and the couple were totally in their element which resulted in a super authentic and beautiful series of images. Take a second to relax and enjoy this pretty shoot.

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From the photographer: I had an amazing time photographing Kristen & Jeremy’s engagement session in South Carolina. When scheming ideas for their session, I asked them to choose 3 descriptive words that best represent how they want to feel during their session. They chose calm, pure and romantic.








Kristen has a love for industrial buildings so we chose a venue that had great light for purity and blank space to help create a calm environment. We ended their session outdoors in a nearby park where the streams of light coming through was so warm and ethereal.




Kristen and Jeremy had great chemistry and embraced the carefree mood we were aiming to create. I turned on some music to help them feel at-home and find their natural rhythm. These images are so honest to their love; carefree and playful.








Photography: Heather Payne Photography //  Engagement Ring: Jessie Jordan Jewelry // Dress: Anthropologie // Film Processing: Richard Photo Lab // Bride: Kristen Elrod, Designer of Alanah Textiles // Groom: Jeremy Elrod of King of Pops // Venue: 701 Whaley


We’re so excited to share this super-fun and vivid engagement session with you guys! Deidra and Pete were the lucky winners of a complete Sorella Muse wedding package back and June. We love Deidra’s description of Nicole, of Sorella Muse: “Like a hummingbird flitting about, she moved between angles, shots, and genial suggestions to bring out our most authentic selves.” Sounds like a good team! We can’t wait to see photos of their big day!

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How they met: In January 2008, Pete was celebrating a transition from grad school with a trip to Costa Rica. Packed and ready, he needed only a map of the country. He stopped into his local Barnes and Noble, where Deidra was working part-time to save some extra money before heading off to law school. She was covering the cash register for a co-worker who was taking a break when Pete approached to pay for his map. Deidra was feeling extra friendly that evening and decided to strike up some small talk in Spanish. After engaging briefly and warmly, Pete asked for her number under the pretext that they might meet up and practice Spanish together. Pete wasn’t deterred after Deidra canceled their first date, supposedly “too tired to meet up,” and they finally did dinner about a month after meeting. Fast forward seven years, and they are thrilled to be planning their wedding.

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The Proposal: Our engagement weekend was our definition of a perfect weekend. We started off with lunch at Hopscotch, one of our favorite restaurants in Oakland. Next, we made our way through the grey rain toward Aptos and a cozy-modern guest house on a vineyard overlooking the Pacific. After just settling in and with a bit of feigned whimsy, Pete suggested a pre-dinner toast of Deidra’s favorite grape juice and cupcakes. Each cupcake was in a box of its own, but the last box contained a ring box instead of a cupcake. Deidra was happily surprised when she opened that third box and Pete began to tell her all that he felt, asking eventually whether she would be his partner in marriage and in life. A happy yes followed, and we enjoyed the rest of a long weekend with comedy, sea kayaking, walks, the new Hobbit release, morning tea, a visit to the Santa Cruz Surf Museum, and of course, ice cream.

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Our Engagement Session: Our engagement session with Nicole was better than we could have imagined. From start to finish, it was organic and uniquely us. Oakland and the East Bay have been our home for 10 years, so it was fitting that we toured a sun-filled Temescal coffee shop, a local ice cream shop, and a favorite park—spontaneously pausing in between midway to enjoy a mural. All the while, Nicole accompanied us like an old friend. She made us feel so comfortable and at ease. Like a hummingbird flitting about, she moved between angles, shots, and genial suggestions to bring out our most authentic selves.

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Photography : Sorella Muse N. Anderson Studio //  Makeup: Tamara Locke // Hair: Liz & Company Oakland, CA // Deidra’s Skirt: Sam & Lavi // Deidra’s Top: Banana Republic // Sandals: Cocobelle via Shopbop // Pete’s Shirt and Jeans: J. Crew // Pete’s Sandals: Chac // Location: Arbor Cafe, Temescal Alley, and Piedmont Park //